While spring cleaning my old old old e-mails the other day, I discovered an e-mail by an ex-bf. Lets call him NIRSI aka TheSpinelessDick. The SpinlessDick and I dated for an extremely short while back in the dinosaur days, and being TheSpinelessDick that he was (and still is), he decided the best way to break the news to me is to not break the news at all. I later discovered that he was seeing another gal (no surprise there).
So, being a woman, a closure is (almost) inevitable. I just had to know why (don’t we all?). So I contacted him back a few years later and we made (sorta) peace. I got the closure that I wanted and he was at that time seeing a gal (lets call her TheCluelessVictim). Being the whinny spineless dick that he was (I still slap myself silly thinking that I used to fancy this guy! There must be something seriously wrong with me) he whined and complained about his current (then) gf. No, not complaining…but bitching about The CluelessVictim.
And this went on for almost a month…everyday.
Crap! I thought to myself, what the fish had I gotten myself into. So I told him…
“Get the heck out of the relationshiplah if you’re not happy. No point just complaining about it, yes?”
So he did, citing to TheCluessVictim that *I*, the ex-gf have asked him to break-up with her.
Say what?!
So, being a woman, a closure is (almost) inevitable. I just had to know why (don’t we all?). So I contacted him back a few years later and we made (sorta) peace. I got the closure that I wanted and he was at that time seeing a gal (lets call her TheCluelessVictim). Being the whinny spineless dick that he was (I still slap myself silly thinking that I used to fancy this guy! There must be something seriously wrong with me) he whined and complained about his current (then) gf. No, not complaining…but bitching about The CluelessVictim.
And this went on for almost a month…everyday.
Crap! I thought to myself, what the fish had I gotten myself into. So I told him…
“Get the heck out of the relationshiplah if you’re not happy. No point just complaining about it, yes?”
So he did, citing to TheCluessVictim that *I*, the ex-gf have asked him to break-up with her.
Say what?!
How low can you go baby? How low?
God is great. TheCluelessVictim and I met at a barbeque and the rest was history.
So I was framed. No biggie. I believe in karma. What goes around will come around and bite ya in the ass.
The last time I heard he was sleeping with someone’s wife and at the same time finggering a Chinese girl at the back of his Toyota.
Also he was “asked to leave” aka sacked from one of the best law firm in Malaysia. His family supposedly comes from a long line of legal background with father and aunty in high places.
"He was the joke of the (then) office," so his (then) officemates said to me.
A few years down the road, I bumped into TheSpinlessDick again. He was then engaged to a lovely lady, lets call her Corina Corina. I told him that Corina Corina sounded like a great decent gal, so I said perhaps it’s time you stop screwing around and settle down.
Instead, TheSpinelssDick said,
“F, the sex is just so lame and boring”
“F, she is emotionally clingy”
“F, she is pushing me to get married”
And he even showed me all the sms that Corina Corina sent to him.
God is great. TheCluelessVictim and I met at a barbeque and the rest was history.
So I was framed. No biggie. I believe in karma. What goes around will come around and bite ya in the ass.
The last time I heard he was sleeping with someone’s wife and at the same time finggering a Chinese girl at the back of his Toyota.
Also he was “asked to leave” aka sacked from one of the best law firm in Malaysia. His family supposedly comes from a long line of legal background with father and aunty in high places.
"He was the joke of the (then) office," so his (then) officemates said to me.
A few years down the road, I bumped into TheSpinlessDick again. He was then engaged to a lovely lady, lets call her Corina Corina. I told him that Corina Corina sounded like a great decent gal, so I said perhaps it’s time you stop screwing around and settle down.
Instead, TheSpinelssDick said,
“F, the sex is just so lame and boring”
“F, she is emotionally clingy”
“F, she is pushing me to get married”
And he even showed me all the sms that Corina Corina sent to him.
"No it's my fault. I'm sorry", she said.
Poor gal thought it was her fault that things didn’t go well with them.
TheSpinelessDick then asked,
“F can I borrow your room for a couple of hours?”
“What for?”
“I’m meeting up with this gurl and I don’t want to rent a hotel for just a couple hours. Rugi”
WTF?! ARE YOU EFFIN' NUTS? WHAT ARE YOU DOING? YOU’RE GETTING MARRIED IN 3 MONTHS. IF YOU DON’T STOP THIS BEHAVIOUR, I’LL TELL CORINA CORINA!
It was something that I should have not said as I later learned.
The next thing I knew, I was attacked by Corina Corina citing that *I* was the one who wanted to sleep with TheSpinelessDick and I was trying to break up their engagement. I was also regarded as the pathetic ex-gf who wanted to get back with TheSpinelessDick and who was jealous with Corina Corina and this whole shenanigans was posted all over internet bla bla bla.
.....I have to say, it was not a surprise to me that that happened.
I guess TheSpinelessDick had to do what he had to do to save himself. He must feel very proud that Corina Corina defended him with all her might. He ought to be. Not every woman would want to marry a guy who cheated on her 3 months before the wedding. That gal got balls I tell ya.
TheSpinelessDick then asked,
“F can I borrow your room for a couple of hours?”
“What for?”
“I’m meeting up with this gurl and I don’t want to rent a hotel for just a couple hours. Rugi”
WTF?! ARE YOU EFFIN' NUTS? WHAT ARE YOU DOING? YOU’RE GETTING MARRIED IN 3 MONTHS. IF YOU DON’T STOP THIS BEHAVIOUR, I’LL TELL CORINA CORINA!
It was something that I should have not said as I later learned.
The next thing I knew, I was attacked by Corina Corina citing that *I* was the one who wanted to sleep with TheSpinelessDick and I was trying to break up their engagement. I was also regarded as the pathetic ex-gf who wanted to get back with TheSpinelessDick and who was jealous with Corina Corina and this whole shenanigans was posted all over internet bla bla bla.
.....I have to say, it was not a surprise to me that that happened.
I guess TheSpinelessDick had to do what he had to do to save himself. He must feel very proud that Corina Corina defended him with all her might. He ought to be. Not every woman would want to marry a guy who cheated on her 3 months before the wedding. That gal got balls I tell ya.
I don’t blame Corina Corina. She was a woman in love and wanted to marry TheSpinelessDick no matter what.
I found out that Corina Corina and TheSpinelessDick got married sometime in 2005. The Chinese gal who TheSpinelessDick fingered at the back of his Toyata told me about it 2 weeks ago.
My best of luck to Corina Corina.
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